
Chinese women are known for being shy, intelligent, and very beautiful. Modern women from this country are also well-educated and quite open-minded, but they are also a bit traditional — some Americans think they are great partners. Here, we’ll tell you everything you want to know about them!
The Best Chinese Online Dating Sites
Chinese women for dating and American men
Here’s the first thing you should know if you’re going to connect with Chinese women online: these women are really interested in American men. More than 1,800 women from China have entered the United States on a K-1 visa in 2019. This number has increased since 2010 when only 1,100 Chinese women started relationships with American men — and we expect the number to grow with time. Here’s another thing you need to know: 1 out of 6 Chinese girls who got married to Americans had already had kids before marriage — almost 300 K-2 visas were issued in 2019.

How to Find a Chinese Woman to Date?
- If you are not a fluent Chinese speaker, focus on big cities: Shanghai, Beijing, Hong Kong, and Tianjin—these cities have the highest percentage of English speakers. Approach them in malls (like IFC Mall in Shanghai), nightclubs, parks, libraries, bars, expat centers, and so on.
- Or, if you want to save at least $3,000 on your trip to China, do it online. Online dating is fast, convenient, and effective and will only cost you around $100-$200 per month.
- Choose a dating site and create a profile that would attract Chinese women. Upload your best photos (only recent ones) and answer all the questions you’ll see during the registration.
- Purchase a premium subscription, even if it isn’t necessary. Well, it’s always necessary—most reputable dating platforms require payment, so you’ll need to pay to chat with the ladies.
- Chat with the ladies. Do not rush! You don’t want them to feel pressured. A lot of these women are already pressured enough by society (because they’re in their late 20s or 30s and are still not married), you don’t need to add to it.
- Meet your Chinese bride in person. You won’t be able to skip this step because if you want to marry her, you’ll have to meet her first. It would be better to meet in China because getting a Chinese visa for you is quicker than getting an American visa for her.
- Meet her parents, show your respect, and show them that you can provide for a family.
- Propose to her—but first, contact her family to get her father’s permission.
Cost of dating Chinese women
How much does it cost to date Chinese women? We’ll tell you here. At first, you can try to do it offline — it’s quite expensive and, well, your chances are not that high if you’re going to meet Chinese women on the streets of Beijing. It’s quite hard because street pick up relies on action+luck, but in China, it also relies on your Chinese skills (and on prejudice some of them still have against foreigners). We recommend you try Chinese dating sites — it’s much easier and cheaper. You’ll still need to move to China to meet Chinese women in person — let’s talk about how much it will cost for you:
- The flight will cost you from $1,700 to $6,500 to get to Beijing from New York and vice versa (the faster the cheaper);
- The entertainment budget is about $30 per day;
- Short taxi ride costs about $2;
- A casual lunch for 2 costs about $6-$8.
The average daily cost of a trip to China is $72 per person per 1 day — you’ll have to spend $1,000-$2,600 for 2 weeks in this country. In total, you should be ready to spend from $3,000 to $9,000 for 2 weeks in China, but if you’d like the cheaper price start looking for woman from Vietnam.

The truth about Chinese women
There is no accurate information on the demographics of the dating sites’ users in China. We can assume most Chinese women who use international dating platforms are in their 20s and 30s. Like most Japanese women on dating sites, they are well-educated because there are no problems with female higher education in China (almost half of all graduate students here are women). Of course, they have a job — modern Chinese women’s roles are not as traditional as they were before. Another interesting fact is that they are ok if a man is older — the average age gap between an American husband and a Chinese partner is 5-8 years.
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Conclusion: Are Chinese women really worth it?
If you are still thinking of creating an account on a Chinese dating platform, go for it — there are lots of good services with thousands of awesome Chinese women. It’s very simple, it’s very cheap, and it’s very convenient, so why hesitate?